Thanks Megan for the funny video

I turned in my dissertation to my committee today. It's a relief to have it done, but I don't quite believe it yet. It doesn't feel real. I'm really tired, and I keep thinking "what next? what did I forget? I need to make another plot. I need to make another figure. work. work. work." aahhhhh!!! This anxiety is very clingy.


I'll get used to it and move one to more important things like this:



Actually, now I've got to prepare for my defense and apply for a Jay-Oh-Bee.

What's in a name?

How would you refer to your significant other if you were cohabitating with no plans for marriage? I don't feel like the term "boyfriend" covers the relationship. When I introduce Patrick as my boyfriend, people look a little shocked when the follow up question is answered with "We've been together over 7 years". The word boyfriend feels too temporary. I could call him my partner, and I kind of like the gender ambiguity of that. Significant Other feels too stuffy and official for casual conversation. I sometimes call him my husband b/c it is just easier. But, it's not the truth. I also don't want to call him my fiance b/c we have no plans on getting married.

So, here are a names I am considering calling Patrick:

Bit of stuff
The father of my cat
My Old Man
Man-Slave
Better half
Voice of reason
Ride home from the bars


Do you like any of them? Got any ideas of your own? Let me know.

Happy Mardi Gras!

I miss living in Louisiana. I miss the food, the music, the people, and the festivities. Every event is an excuse to drag out the trumpets, tap shoes, kegs, and crawfish. I miss it.

Have a happy Mardi Gras!



And, don't forget to get out and vote today!!